When you see a guy with a different girl every other day, you eventually jump to the conclusion that this guy is kind of a player. But does that really make him one? Well, that depends on your definition.
“A player is someone who dates multiple people frequently and kisses them, or leads them on emotionally,” Eric Davis explains.
So when Hunter Miller was asked the question, When you go on dates with multiple people does that make you a player? he replied, “As long as the girls you date know you’re dating around, and they don’t think that they’re in a relationship with you, then it’s perfectly fine.” So it seems that going on many dates is okay if you don’t lead your date on!
When is it not okay to date around? “If you have chlamydia,” Katie Hansen jokes. “No, it is not okay to date around if you ever feel like you have to hide something you have done from someone. That’s where the line is crossed.” Remember, don’t lie about things you are doing with other people. If you have to lie about it, you shouldn’t be doing it.
Is it attractive when guys date around? “I feel like it depends,” Lauren Downs begins. “If they go on multiple dates casually then that’s admirable. It’s not attractive if he creates ‘mini relationships’ with every one of his dates.”
The biggest thing to remember is to be honest to your dates. It is important to date around, get to know different people, but it is also important that you’re always clear about your intentions. Dating around doesn’t make you a player. It is meant to be fun so enjoy it!